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I wanted to share this letter published in the New York Times Book Review. 

3/1/2016

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From Letters to the Editor, New York Times Book Review – February 28, 2016
 

To the Editor:

Re Andrew Solomon’s review of “When Breath Becomes Air” and four other books about death and dying (Feb. 14): Besides comfort and dignity, we need to openly discuss imbuing the impending death of a loved one with meaning. This is a considered trilateral conversation between a patient, their loved ones and clinicians. Except for palliative care teams, the health care professionals entrusted to shepherd most of us to our deaths require better training. Poetry and engagement with the humanities not only enhance a doctor’s empathy, but are requisite to all of us living meaningfully.
I have attended severely injured accident victims. Some die at the roadside before they get to the hospital. Breaking the news of a failed resuscitation can be heartbreaking for a child’s parents. Kafka’s “The meaning of life is that it stops” remains scant consolation when life is robbed unexpectedly or prematurely. I believe that dying at an old and infirm age is not something to be raged against or resisted at all cost. For all of us and every day, life ebbs away at a varied pace. Some race into the abyss of oblivion, and even the healthy are inching toward the precipice. Alastair Reid’s “Curiosity” offers a truthful rebuttal to Dylan Thomas’s “Do not go gentle into that good night”: “That dying is what the living do, / that dying is what the loving do, / . . . that dying is what, to live, each has to do.”
JOSEPH TING
BRISBANE, AUSTRALIA
The writer is an adjunct associate professor in the school of public health and social work at Queensland University of Technology.

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    Natalie Segall

    Based in Montreal, I am a certified loss and grief therapist and counsellor, consultant, facilitator, and educator. Having been trained and mentored over many years by 
    leading grief and bereavement expert, 
    Dawn Cruchet, I also received intensive training in psychotherapy at the Argyle Institute. I
    provide
    support, counselling, information, and education for individuals, patients and family members, caregivers, clergy, counselors, nurses, nursing home administrators, social workers, psychologists, physicians, funeral directors, marriage and family therapists, and all those working with chronic or terminal illness, death, dying, grief or bereavement. My website can be found at nataliesegall.com

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